Do you need a sex coach? Today marks 19 years that I’ve been with my husband. I remember meeting him in one of our local English churches in Luxembourg a few months after moving here from London. We were friends for 2 years before we started getting intimate with each other. Sex gave me a lot of anxiety, so I never allowed any intimacy to happen between us.

When I was young, I grew up with church leaders who told me that sex was a sinful thing, that having sex before marriage will lead to hell, so I never attempted to get closer to any guy. For me sex meant death.

Vaginismus has been a condition I’ve lived with for most of my married life. Even though I love m husband, I remember feeling so much pain when we were making love, anything penetration just gave me so much agony, and this caused a lot of performance anxiety for both of us. Sex was pretty much traumatic for me however, my man was always gentle and compassionate.

Vaginismus is an involuntary contraction of the vagina (a contraction of the pelvic floor muscles that tighten the vaginal entrance). It impairs your ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration, causing a lot of discomfort or pain when you are making love.

15 years into my marriage, I almost filed for a divorce because I thought there was something wrong with me and I needed space to grieve, however on my path to finding a solution I decided to hire a sex coach to help me navigate my fear.

Within a few months of working with her, I went from:

• Feeling unattractive and unaroused to feeling lustfully desired by my partner and having deeply fulfilling orgasmic sex every day.
• Total numbness to being naturally connected to my sexuality in the bedroom and beyond.
• Not feeling confident in my body, to believing that I’m an amazing lover. I’m in love with my sexy self, in touch with my sensual feminine essence and free from boundaries and judgments.

Today, we mark 19 years together. Sex coaching has been the best investment I’ve ever made in my life. In addition to it saving my marriage, I’ve claimed my sexuality, body, and identity as an empowered lover

What is Sex Coaching?

Sex coaching means partnering with a client in a loving, compassionate and supportive way to create a conscious container for transformation that results in greater self-love, integration, and self-realization. Staying focused on helping the client to achieve their goals and desires which is in alignment with their original essence. It’s such an honor for me to be a sex coach shifting women’s consciousness around their pleasure.

A sex coach is someone who holds space without any shame or negative judgment. They motivate people to talk about anything that is hard to talk about around their sexuality.

Benefits of Sex Coaching: You will start to

• Experience a new level of sex, pleasure, intimacy, and connection with yourself and your partner, or future partners.
• Enjoy your body and express yourself as an empowered lover
• (Re)discover and express your sexual desires.
• Discover new and inspiring possibilities for sexual and sensual intimacy and expression.
• Access the best sex, pleasure and intimacy education
• Unlock the vitality and radiance of your sexual energy. You will learn how to claim your power source, and channel this into all areas of your life.
• Communicate your needs and desires and share your truth in a way that empowers and enhances your sex life with any partner
• Demystifying orgasms and have better, deep and expansive orgasms
• Breakthrough limiting beliefs and patterns, shame, guilt, fear, and inhibitions.
• Acquire the confidence and communication skills to navigate your intimate life. 
• Create nourishing, pleasure-filled and healthy relationships

What’s the Difference between Sex Coaching and Sex Therapist?

Therapists approach sexual issues from a psychological perspective, however, sex coaches help their clients figure out what they want sexually. In order words, they create a roadmap that helps their clients achieve their goals. I guide women through the vital and integrated tantric approach, using powerful holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditative practices, sounding, and movement, going deeper into the heart of the issue that’s affecting them subconsciously.

What My Sex Coaching Program Is Like?

• Private Coaching Experience using modern psychology and ancient tantra over the Zoom every other week.
• Expansive Journaling Prompt; to help you navigate what’s coming up.
• Weekly Transformative Self-pleasure and Embodiment Practice. Daily practices to help create embodied transformation.
• Ecstatic Breathwork, an integrative way to use breathing for entering into expanded states used for healing, pleasure and greater self-understanding.
• Guided Audio Meditation: The most profound embodiment practices to support you through your healing journey.
• Accountability. Ongoing laser coaching with me
• A thriving community of sisterhood

Georgina Says…

Creating a couple’s bubble was what saved our marriage. We didn’t know how to communicate with each other without having a grudge. We slept in different rooms because we would go for weeks not talking to each other.

Acting selfishly or being ambivalent about our differences created a wedge between us. While some wedges happened without intention some happened because I didn’t care.

Now that I’ve started coaching with Joyce, I’ve learned how to care about my partner well being and put him first.

Polly Says…

Before knowing my erotic blueprint, I was ashamed of my sexuality. I didn’t even know what I enjoyed in bed. I wasn’t sexually empowered. Most of the time I gave my power away. I expected my partner to know how to please me.

Knowing that I’m a sexual kinky allowed me to step into my fierceness fully, not only in sex but also in my relationship.

The dating adventure ideas you shared helped me create more excitement in my relationship.

Are you ready to reignite the spark and feel sexual pleasure in your body?

My OMG 1-1 private coaching program brings the structure, knowledge, practices, and support for you to embrace the magic of your body and your pleasure to enjoy who you are, connect with your desires and (re)discover and express your authentic sexual nature. 

If you are committed and ready to make changes in your sex life, click to get in touch with me so we can design a customized 1-1  Private Coaching Experience for you and your needs.