Confidence wasn’t in my vocabulary a few years ago. Asking questions at an event petrified me let alone speak on stage, but deep down inside I felt a unique pull inside of me that felt like I was made for something bigger than just meeting someone at a coffee shop.
Last week, I won a speaking contest for the Women Entrepreneur’s Day. Thanks, Annica Törneryd and Elfi Koufogeorgou for holding an impactful event. It literally shifted my paradigm. So happy to be working on my TEDx talk with Nienke van Bezooijen.
2019 I added to my goal that I wanted to speak on stage. I didn’t know how but I just knew I wanted it.
Sex, love, and relationship is a taboo topic and taking it on stage can be quite a challenge but still, I had a strong desire to claim this spot as my niche.
I’m still not perfect; I freeze on stage, talk too fast and forget my words but consistently doing my inner work, navigating my emotions and working with a coach has helped me calm down my nervous system and build self-confidence.
As of now:
✨ I’ve created my own events “Queen of Love”, “In-Tea-Macy Sisterhood” and “Queen of Relationship”
✨ Paneled on multiple stages all across Europe
✨ Became a Guest expert in a few masterminds
✨ Spoken at Women associations, Wellness groups, and organizations
✨ Done a few podcasts
✨ And created my own YouTube channel.
These are small but mighty shifts that are moving me forward towards my goal.
So my advice to you is this, don’t let your fear; trauma, failures, and background keep you from following your true desires.
Create your goals, chuck them down, create empowering habits around achieving them, master your emotions, keep taking baby steps and before you know it you are playing a much bigger game.
I’m so honored that you’ve been witnessing my growth so far.
Let me remind you of one thing, you don’t have to have all the certifications, accolades and proof to start making in difference in someone else life.
Huge Love
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