Up until my mid 30, I truly believed that sex was just an unsatisfying task on my to-do list to satisfy my partner.
I was unable to orgasm and I didn’t even know what I loved.

I get a lot of DMs from women saying:

“I’ve never had an orgasm during intercourse. Is there something wrong with me?”

“How much masturbation is considered normal?”

“Can using a vibrator ‘ruin’ your for sex?”

“I didn’t have a huge sex drive before I got pregnant but now that’s all I can think about. Why?”

Everyone’s path to fulfilling sex is different. You need to spend time getting to know yourself more to know what turns us on.

Allow yourself to go on a sexual exploratory journey.

There are different seasons on sex; summer, autumn; winter; spring. Celebrate the season you at.

And if you are not in the season you want, ask yourself what is triggering the flight, fight; freeze responses when it comes to pleasure?

Most people have not done the work to regulate their nervous system to feels safe to expand into epic sex.

Here’s the truth is

If… 

1) You don’t reclaim your body, your sensations and your right to pleasure. You will lose the inner compass of what’s more in life. It’s through our sensations and feelings that we rediscover our “truth detector.

2) You don’t claim your desires you will never know what means to be sexually empowered in your body.

3) You don’t rewrite your sexual story you will always live a lie.  A life based on the lies forced on our ancestor.

Too many ladies live a life that is passionless just because of these 5 sex myths

Why?

because they don’t want to be shamed for their desires.

I get it; shame can leave a traumatic imprint in the body but whom does it serve if you are not engaging with your truest sexual identity. Blooming bravely as who you truly are, expanding into your epic essence.

I hope this help!? Comment below.

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