If you are having issues experiencing ecstasy in the bedroom, perhaps the inner child is running the show:
1. The performer
3. The Worthless
3. The Saboteur
4. The Enlightened
5. The Novelty Seeker
REPARENTING YOUR INNER CHILD
Childhood abandonment, neglect, and abuse are traumatic experiences, whether we’d like to admit it or not. And as we grow, that child who didn’t get what they needed stays inside of us, screaming and crying and acting out. It keeps our grown-up selves feeling not so grown-up.
Here are some common ways you might be made to feel unsafe.
• Perhaps you were told, parent knows best and you didn’t own your opinions.
• You were allowed to play when all the work is done.
• You weren’t allowed to show strong emotions such as anger or joy.
• Your parents or family members shamed you.
• You were verbally criticized/abused on a regular basis.
• You were physically punished, e.g. smacked, beaten.
• You weren’t allowed to be spontaneous.
• You weren’t given physical affection, e.g. hugs, kisses, or cuddles.
This list is by no means exhaustive. So if you feel I have left something out, please share it in the comments. How many can you relate to?
Women are raised to serve others, to be graceful, and to be a “good girl.
Sometimes there is no amount of breathwork, meditation, crystals, or therapeutic modalities that can shit things if you are not willing to face these inner child wounds and re-parent it.
For me, I had to learn how to speak to myself, use my voice, set boundaries, communicate my needs, let go of fear, embrace my erotic blueprint, and relinquish responsibility for other people and their problems.
I was #1 and #3
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