Understand My Obsession With Reclaiming Sexual Sovereignty

I recently realized that I have spent almost a decade healing my body and regulating my nervous system around my sexuality. This might sound like a lot but the truth is the work I’ve done has helped me become a better lover, mother, space-holder, and helped me built a better relationship with my bank account.

Sexual sovereignty is the natural unfolding of our erotic wisdom. It occurs when you are rich in your own beingness, pushing for pleasure, desires, reclamation, expansion, consent, and body liberation for all black women.

Honoring what gives you pleasure as a woman is a way of acknowledging your right to live and thrive in your power in the world.

When someone experiences their inherent pleasure, they tend to trust themselves and life more. Oxytocin makes us feel well in our bodies.

Most of us have been conditioned to keep and erotism in the bedroom as if it were a stay-at-home dog. We go about our day leaving the best determining factor at home. We fear that our erotic essence will be an unruled dog and be shamed. But what if your sexuality is a well-trained German Shepard, present, powerful, and in control.

Our sexual identity can be integrated into who we are in this world.

Our bodies are the first response to life and where there is a history of developmental trauma, micro or macro aggression, and oppression we tend to override our dis-embodied consent when it comes to sex, love, and money

“Rewire your nervous system, and reclaim empowered choices.”

The truth is you can be a powerful woman running a successful business, earning 6-figures in your career but if you don’t know how to respond to your triggers you will never live your best life. You will always live a life that lacks pleasure, safety, and embodied abundance.

Dissociating from your sexuality is not the solution to dissatisfaction, pain, or safety.

This is why I’m a Sex Coach.

Pleasure might feel inaccessible to you right now, but what if I told you there is a way to resource possibility and safety, to help bring your curiosity back online so that you can access pleasure in do-able ways.

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